The Two-Day Rule

  

Scenario:

You're Beyoncé. You're sitting at the bar and all of the sudden Jay-Z seems to pop out of no where and has you laughing and impressing you the whole conversation.  Plus, you found out he's a multi-platinum recording artist too! Such a small world! You're totally obsessed and can't wait to talk to him again.

Problem: 

Despite your accomplishments and good looks, he doesn't text you -__- ... Jay-Z obviously doesn't know he just met the most beautiful woman in the world, or hasn't realized it yet.

Solution:

When you meet a guy and get the feeling there could definitely be something there, but he doesn't text you right away, always follow (what I like to call) the "two-day rule." While there's no reason a girl can't text the guy, you should give him some time to.  But, if he doesn't text you and you absolutely can't wait to speak to him and are DYING to hear from him, wait two days, see if you still feel the same way, and then reach out to him with something fun on the third day.  You could text him with a reference to an inside joke from that night or a funny coincidence related to something you talked about.  

For example, if you met him on Saturday, don't text until Tuesday (afternoon or evening, preferably).  Sometimes they just need a little nudge and confidence you felt the same way (without seeming obsessed). 

Embrace your inner Sasha Fierce and give it a shot!